What to Expect

I'll try to keep posts as focused on a similar theme as possible, but some weeks I may include a recipe, a book, movie, or TV show review, or a memory that has been on my mind. I will always do my best to loop back to the overall theme of this blog- relationships, dating, and how I navigate the mess of life. 

As of the start of this blog, I plan to post weekly on Saturday mornings. However, life happens, and I may sometimes miss a week. 

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