Love Feels Like

It's been a while since I last fell in love, and so I thought a reminder of what it feels like might be good for me as I continue to go out on first dates and try to find love again.

A list of things love feels like:

  • The song Golden Lady by Stevie Wonder 
  • Morning on the shore of Lake Superior in late September
  • Waking up from a nap and finding one of my cats has curled up next to me while I slept
  • The final dance in the movie Dirty Dancing
  • The poem Always by Lang Leav:

  • The first taste of strawberry ice cream on a hot day
  • Someone remembering your order at your favorite restaurant

 

What does love feel like to you? Leave a comment!

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